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Empowering Children to Speak Up

Thursday, September 18th, 2008

Dropped off the eldest at school Monday.  She had a little cough — but it didn’t seem serious enough to warrant staying home.  (My husband and I don’t want to get her in the habit of staying home every time she has a cough or sniffle.)  Picked her up 2 hours later (her school has a half of a half day Mondays … don’t ask).  She had a fever and was wheezing something fierce.   Two naps and a trip to the doctor later — turns out she was pretty sick.

I asked her if she felt OK during school.  She said “No, not really.  But I felt too shy to tell my teacher.”  When I asked her what bothered her during school she responded, “I felt like I needed my mommy.”  I asked her about breathing, “fine.”

The doctors were worried that my older daughter gave my infant an infection.  So I had to run the little one to the hospital to have blood drawn.  Since I didn’t want to take a sick child to the hospital, for fear she would get sicker — I left her with a neighbor (over the dinner hour).  Came home roughly an hour later, and the eldest’s face was covered with a rash.  She said she had been itching the whole time I was gone.  I asked her why she didn’t ask the neighbor to give her the benedryl in her backpack.  She said she didn’t think of it.  It’s not the neighbor’s fault.  It’s not her fault.  I should have prepared everyone better.  I just didn’t have time.  And sometimes real life works that way.

Because my daughter is so mature, I sometimes forget she’s just five.  Maybe I expect too much of her.  Yet, I am afraid that if I am not around - she will not speak up for herself and get the help she needs.  On the allergy front - I have always been confident that she knows her own body and is able to articulate her needs.  I now realize that ability to articulate needs does not necessarily translate into speaking up for yourself.  No harm done when it’s a little rash — but what if it had been more severe?  I shudder to think.  On the asthma front - I now question whether she knows what wheezing (or an asthma attack) feels like.  Since wheezing doesn’t seem to bother her, I am afraid it will go unnoticed for too long, until it gets dangerous.

The end result: she needs a pep talk on the importance of telling the grownup in charge when she’s not feeling well — so that they can get her the help she needs.  And she needs practice doing this, or I fear she will not know what to do in the case of a real emergency.  You know how kids have fire drills at school to prepare them for the real thing — I think I may have to do an asthma/allergy drill to prepare her for an event which I hope will never come to pass.

Not sure whether this is a smart move that will make her feel confident and prepared or an alarmist one that will make her feel more fearful.

How do you empower your kids to be their own health advocates when they are not with you?

Peanut-Free Cookie Quest: Resolved

Friday, September 12th, 2008

Thank you for support on the birthday-snack craziness and for your very good ideas about peanut-free cookies.  As it turns out, the clinic aide tells me, my daughter’s cookies were the only ones distributed to the class because the other 3 kids with September birthdays brought in cookies manufactured in facilities that process peanuts.  So, my daughter’s cookies were a big hit with the class (happy point 1), and nobody got sick (happy point 2).

A couple of thoughts on your comments…

Thanks to  Jennifer B for letting me know about the bakeries — small and large, local and national — that can meet my needs.   By the way, I really like the Lemonade Bakery.  The main reason I didn’t order from her is that the school was pretty specific that it needed to be store packaged and store bought.  (I was afraid that the school would treat her goods as homemade and not allow them.)  On the mass-produced prepackaged front — I am so glad to know that Cherrybrook Kitchen makes ready-to-eat vegan and nut-free cookies.   Wahoo!!!!!!!!!  If I had known a bit earlier, I could have avoided this whole messy situation for a mere $3 per 6 oz (a small price for my sanity).

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 I also appreciate Beth telling me that Back to Nature does in fact make peanut butter sandwich cookies.  Yet another “safe” snack down the tubes.  But I am glad to know.  I am also glad the school did not.  If she had any mild health symptom (headache, stomach upset, rash) after eating something that they suspected may have had a trace of peanuts — they would have used an epipen.

I really liked Aimee’s suggestions to bring a safe candy as a birthday snack — or to skip the food altogether and bring some other treat.  Both of these are wonderful suggestions.  But they weren’t the teacher’s idea.  And they fall outside the boundaries she set down for the class — so I can only imagine how they would be received.  If it is my daughter (and one other peanut allergic child) that they were trying to protect, I don’t understand why they wouldn’t talk with us before setting inflexible rules.  I would have told them how hard it is to find peanut-free cookies.   At kindergarten orientation, the teacher told me that when she has a student with severe allergies — she limits birthday snacks to store packaged/store-cut fruit.  To which I responded, good idea — but don’t do this on my account since I would send my daughter a separate snack anyway.  (I am afraid there might be sulfites or other preservatives on the fruit to which my daughter is sensitive, if not allergic.)  And that’s when the cookie decree was handed down via backpack express.

Liz asked why I didn’t buy Divvies cookies for the whole class.  It’s a matter of economics.  28 kids = 3 dozen cookies plus shipping.  These are kids she met 11 days ago.  Quite frankly, if I’m going to spend the money on Divvies cookies, I’d rather do it for kids we know, and who would appreciate it.

So — I feel lucky we’ve dodged the birthday snack bullet for the year.  The other celebrations will be easy, since I can pack whatever I want for my child.  I’ll be curious whether the rule might change for the rest of the year, given how hard it was to follow in September.  I’ll keep you posted.

Request Denied

Tuesday, September 9th, 2008

In my daughter’s backpack — I got a smug and condescending note from her teacher. It reads:

I spoke with the Administration and we must limit the birthday snacks in kindergarten to cookies. What about Oreos? This kind of cookies is safe for students allergic to nut/peanut products.

This note confirms my hunch that the teacher passes herself off as an expert about allergies, while in fact, knowing little about them. Oreos? Goodness gracious. From Nabisco? Makers of the Peanut Cream Double Stuff Oreos as well as Nutter Butters? You’ve got to be kidding. I know I should just let it go, but I feel the need to write back. In tomorrow’s backpack, my teacher will find this note.

Dear Teacher:

Although some of your students with nut allergies may have brought oreos in the past — oreos are actually *not* safe (risk-free) for those with severe peanut allergies since plain oreos are made in shared facilities (and most likely on shared equipment) with peanut-butter cream oreos.

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I do not understand the administration’s denial of my request for an exception to the rule to ensure my child can enjoy a shared snack with her class that is produced in a nut-free facility. Though I do not understand it, I will respect it.

I will send in 2 boxes of Back to Nature brand oreos, since I do not believe this brand makes peanut butter oreos, thus these cookies carry less of a chance of triggering an allergic reaction — and my daughter has safely eaten them in the past.

I briefly entertained Rachel’s suggestion of sending in Enjoy Life cookies — but I don’t think it would have the desired effect of making my daughter (or her classmates) happy. It’s an unfortunate situation, really. I hate starting out the school year on such a negative note with my child’s teacher. But between their inflexibility on the health forms, the health plan, bus transportation, and now the birthday snack — I am really wondering whether this school district is a fit for my family.

Digging In My Heels: Over a Cookie?

Monday, September 8th, 2008

In consideration of kids with allergies, my daughter’s teacher is limiting birthday snacks to peanut-free, store-bought cookies.  The only problem — I have yet to find a local grocery store or bakery where I can order/purchase/pick up cookies that are safe for my allergic child.  I inquired at Whole Foods whether I could special order a batch of vegan/nut-free cookies for a dairy and peanut-allergic child.   The store representative politely but frankly explained that they could not assume that kind of liability.  (His unspoken question lingered why *I* would be willing to take on that kind of risk.)   I am trying very hard to get the teacher to allow me to bring in something other than a store-bought cookie for the class to share.  The clinic aide and the assistant principal both independently suggested that I bring store bought cookies for the class and a different treat for my daughter.  I can think of nothing more assured to make her cry than her mom providing a snack for the entire class that she cannot eat.  I would rather bring nothing at all!  I understand the school wanting parents to provide store bought treats — so that standards of cleanliness can be enforced and ingredients can be verified.  But I do not understand why they cannot be more flexible in allowing me to bring in something other than cookies.  Their risk would be greatly reduced by allowing me to bring a treat, like Philly Swirls, that she has eaten many times without allergic reaction.   And the class might actually enjoy it.   But given the highly regulatory environment which I am discovering public school to be — I have a feeling that my appeal for common sense will fall on deaf ears.  Wish me luck.

First Week of Kindergarten

Saturday, September 6th, 2008

Everyone made it through my daughter’s first week of kindergarten with relatively few battle scars — my daughter, me, her teacher, the other kids, the public health nurse.

In honesty, I know very little of what happens in her classroom.  There are 27 kids.  1 teacher.  1 assistant.  My daughter reports less and less of what happens in her classroom every day.  (She turned 5 last week.  I think she’s 5 going on 13.)   Here’s what I do know:

  • There’s a big nut-free sign in front of the door to her classroom.  Kids wash hands with wipes before and after snack.  The teacher distributed a letter from the public health nurse to the parents of her classmates at open house telling them not to bring nuts or nut products for snack.  The teachers apparently check the snack boxes to assure the integrity of the nut-free classroom.  (Though in practical purposes, I don’t know what that means since my daughter said that all of the kids and their parents must be following the rules, which I find hard to believe the first week of school, since no one’s snack has yet to be confiscated.)
  •  The teacher and public health nurse make me feel like they think I’m a bit crazy/neurotic — at least compared with other parents of food allergic kids at the school.
    • Allegedly, I’m the only parent who flagged food allergies for the school administration prior to the beginning of school.  At the open house, and on the first day of school, I saw parents (of kindergarteners, even) strolling casually into the health clinic asking if they needed to fill out any forms to leave an epi-pen at school.  Who are these folks?  Why are they so calm about this?
    • I’m also in the minority of parents who will not allow my child to ride the bus given that she is not allowed to carry an epi-pen or benedryl on the bus.
    • The public health nurse raised an eyebrow me for further modifying my daughter’s health forms to specifically account for how I wanted skin contact with cheese and cheese residue to be handled.  She claimed that I didn’t need to be that specific - that a catchall buzzword I used on the form would allow the desired course of action to be taken.  I am tired of the county demanding specific language to cover its liability while not allowing parents to spell out how they want their children to be appropriately cared for under specific circumstances.
    • I’m kind of annoyed about how birthdays (and birthday snacks) are handled.  Coming from the world of preschool — where the teacher made kids a crown, everyone sang, and parents could bring whatever nut-free product they want … public school is a whole other ball of wax.  On Thursday, no one sang to my daughter.  The teacher privately said happy birthday — but none of her classmates even knew.  Birthdays are celebrated once a month for all the kids in the class with birthdays that month.  Seems reasonable.  The school has a rule that birthday snacks for the class have to be store bought — so that there are clear food labels, reduced risk of cross-contamination, and food being prepared under stricter sanitary conditions.  Not happy I can’t make cupcakes, but still seems reasonable.  So, I ask the teacher if I can bring Philly Swirls — because I can’t buy cupcakes/cookies from a dairy-free/nut-free facility.  Her first answer was no - that she will limit the birthday celebrations to store-cut fruit … so that everyone can share in the birthday treats.  I told her I wasn’t OK with that, since kids might bring in fruit with sulfites, or in syrups.  I would be sending a special snack for my daughter anyway.  Then, I got a letter saying that parents could only send in store-bought cookies for birthday snacks.  Huh????? I’m not sure what to do.  I will ask again about the Philly Swirls (even at the risk of annoying the teacher) - because it would really make my life easy.  If that’s a no — I am wondering whether Whole Foods could prepare nut-free, vegan cookies.  I know they have the ingredients.  I imagine they could clean the mixer, baking sheet, and utensils.  I bet they even could dedicate a few minutes in an oven without nuts.  Even if I could get them to do all of this … would it be safe???

I wonder what next week will bring.  I hope you and your children had easy first weeks of school and would welcome any stories about your first days — or suggestions on how to handle our school birthday snack dilemma.

More Practical School Advice from Maria Acebal

Tuesday, August 5th, 2008

This is Part 3 and the conclusion of my interview with Food Allergy Hero and expert, Maria Acebal, founder of Safe@School Partners.

It seems that there is great variation in how schools accommodate and provide safe environments for children with food allergies. Do you feel that this needs to be equalized? If so, what standards should be set? If not, is it better for school districts to have the ability to make/enact policies on a local level that meet the needs of their students? How, if at all, do you feel the federal legislation pending in Congress will affect the food allergy emergency preparedness of our schools and the safety of food allergic children?

Yes, standards would be wonderful. In my view, these standards would be simple and straightforward. With all the schools that I work with, I recommend just three easy-to-implement steps for them to operate in a “foodallergy smart™” way.

First, all adults who supervise food allergic children at any point in the day must receive annual training on how to (a) reduce the risk of allergen exposure; (b) recognize an allergic reaction; and (c) (preferably) how to administer epinephrine in case of a medical emergency, or at a minimum, how to summon someone immediately who can do so.

Second, a written food allergy policy and procedure document should be drafted that details the responsibilities of administrators, teachers, parents and students and addresses such everyday issues as classroom celebrations, field trips, and subsitutes. A written policy builds institutional knowledge, creates consistency which increases safety, and prevents schools (and parents ) from having to reinvent the wheel year after year.

Third, all food allergic students should be required to submit a one-page “Allergic Reaction Action Plan” signed by their doctor and their parents.

The difficulty, of course, with national or even district-wide standards is then ensuring that they are acted upon and enforced in a very concrete way on a school by school basis. The federal legislation pending in Congress has raised awareness levels tremendously, particularly in highlighting food allergies as a national health concern, so it is wonderful in that regard. However, the standards proposed are purely volunteer and again would need to be translated into concrete actions at the individual school level.

If you feel that the food allergy emergency readiness of your child’s school is lacking - what can you do as a parent (except change school districts or homeschool) to turn the situation around?

Where to begin!? This is a difficult question to answer in the abstract because there are so many possible scenarios. Start with a conversation. Calm, consistent, confident communication is the key. Come prepared not only with a good description of your concern, but also with multiple recommended solutions. If you’re truly starting from scratch, realize that you can’t go from 1 to 100 in a day and that everything you’d like to put in place can’t get implemented at one time. It’s a process. So, choose your two or three “must have’s.” For me, these were always (1) training for the teachers on basic food allergy safety and (2) easy and fast access to epinephrine. Locked doors or cabinets were a deal-breaker. Everything else, I could live with for the moment and work to change in the future, with calm, consistent, and confident communication! I know we hear it all the time (and I believe it’s one of FAAN’s mottos) that “education is the key”… and it is! This includes educating the entire school community. (For more suggestions, click here. In particular, the documents entitled “My Food Allergic Child is Starting a New School” and “My Child’s Classmate has a Food Allergy. What Should I Know?” are particularly relevant here.)

What are some good tips for parents of food allergic children for educating the classmates of their child and their families?

As with anything, I believe sticking to the facts and offering concrete suggestions on how to help always works best. Remember also that before our kids were diagnosed we may have known very little about food allergies and what we now know we learned over time, not all at once. Calm, confident, consistent communication.

Though I have never done this, I know many parents have successfully used FAAN’s PAL materials (including coloring books, story books, and videos) to educate their child’s classmates. For me, that education has always come as a byproduct of being present in the classroom for parties and in her friend’s homes for playdates, checking food, and being very open and matter-of-fact about Nina’s allergy in front of her peers.

Practical School Advice from Food Allergy Expert

Monday, August 4th, 2008

This is part 2 of my interview with Food Allergy Hero and expert, Maria Acebal, founder of Safe@School Partners.

From my experience, school awareness of the severity of peanut allergies is increasing. But how well equipped are schools to accommodate children with multiple allergies? As a parent, how do you reach out and educate schools? What can you ask for — from the classroom teacher, the nurse, the cafeteria worker, the bus driver, the gym/music teacher? What is it reasonable to expect them to provide?

While it is wonderful that awareness of the peanut allergy has increased tremendously, it is often frustrating for parents of kids with multiple allergies, or with allergies to foods other than peanuts, to face what sometimes feels like an exclusive focus on this one food allergen (eg, the “peanut-free” lunch tables). It is therefore paramount that parents educate all school staff that supervise the child on the seriousness of all his or her food allergies. The one page “Allergic Reaction Action Plan” I mentioned earlier can help as it should have all food allergies listed clearly at the top.

As far as what is reasonable to expect, this again is a tough question! The strictly legal answer is that pursuant to Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act of 1973, all schools that receive any form of federal funding (ie, all public schools and many private schools) are prohibited from excluding or otherwise discriminating against a student with a “disability” solely on the basis of that disability. What this means for students with life-threatening food allergies (generally a recognized “disability”) is that schools are required to provide a “free appropriate education” (“FAPE”) designed to meet the educational needs of that student as adequately as it meets the needs of nondisabled students. Often, a FAPE for food-allergic students will include the provision of “related aids and services” such as administration of medication, changes to the classroom environment, menu substitutions, or other health-related needs that require attention during the school day. (Similar protections are offered by the American with Disabilities Act which applies to all public schools and all private, non-religious schools).

Now, that still only begins to answer the question because, for example, the determination of what “changes to the classroom or lunchroom environment” are appropriate are usually made on a case by case basis, and some adjudicative bodies have answered this question differently, so it is hard to generalize. For example, the Office for Civil Rights in the Saluda School District (South Carolina) case, decided that an appropriate change to the school environment included eliminating all peanut products from the school’s menu. Most other cases I am familiar with did not go so far and included other changes such as having a table where the student could eat without the presence of food allergens.

At a minimum, I believe it is reasonable to expect that all adults who supervise your food-allergic child in school receive annual training on food allergy safety; that access to epinephrine at all times is secure and swift; and that reasonable steps to reduce the risk of allergen exposure are consistently applied.

This brings up the sometimes thorny question of what restrictions, if any, schools should have on foods that can be brought into lunchrooms or classrooms. As a food allergy educator, I remain agnostic on this question. With all the schools I work with, I tell them that whatever approach they choose, I will recommend how to implement safety protocols accordingly. So, for example, for schools that are “peanut free”, I stress the importance of having a checking mechanism that ensures food labels are read carefully each and every day to ensure that the environment is in fact “peanut free.” I also stress the importance of clarifying to the entire school community – in writing - what “peanut free” means so that everyone is on the same page and parents of food-allergic kids can plan accordingly. Does “peanut free” mean that no products with peanuts as ingredients as well as no products that “may contain peanuts” or are “processed in a facility with peanuts” are permitted? Or, does it mean that the school will not serve peanut products, but children can bring in peanut products from home for individual consumption? Or, does it mean . . . . You get the point: clarification and control mechanisms are key.

For schools that have no restrictions on foods that can be brought in to the classroom or lunchroom, I stress the importance of reducing the risk of cross-contamination from table surfaces and hands and on being vigilant of the foods made available to the food-allergic child for consumption, particularly the very young children.

Within the school environment, what poses the greatest risks for the food allergic child — e.g. the cafeteria? The bus? Contact reactions on a playground or a shared computer? Something else? Are there ways that we as parents can work with schools to reduce these risks? How should we educate our children to prepare them to recognize and minimize risks?

I believe FAAN sponsored a study that showed that the primary source of risk for reactions in school was classroom celebrations. As parents advocating for our children, we must remember that the most serious reactions almost always occur from ingestion. While a few very serious contact reactions have been discussed in the medical literature, all the leading allergists I’ve spoken with, including Dr. Woods of Johns Hopkins and Dr. Burks of Duke, stress that the greatest risk to kids come from ingestion. (Of course, with younger children especially, who often put their fingers in their mouths, eyes and nose, contact with the hands can lead to ingestion). So, there are levels of precaution: first and foremost, we need to put in place steps to ensure that the food our children will eat in school, be it for a classmate’s birthday celebration or for snack, are allergen-free (this includes food free of any cross-contamination, which is why I advise schools to limit food to be shared in the classroom to store-bought food with ingredient lists since home-baked items are more likely to run the risk of cross-contamination problems). Second, we can then worry about the contact issue by teaching schools that cleaning thoroughly with hand wipes or soap and water after eating are important ways to reduce the risk of cross-contamination via hand and table surfaces.

As our children get older, they will begin to recognize the risks for themselves. I believe the most powerful teaching tool is for us parents to model the behavior we want our kids to adopt. For me, this includes teaching her the right balance between caution and overreaction – I want her to have a healthy respect for the seriousness of her allergy but not a crippling fear of it. So, while I admit that I was tempted to wipe down all the monkey bars and slides with handwipes at the local park, especially when the food allergy diagnosis was still new, I resisted the urge because I did not want my daughter to fear going down a slide or sitting on a swing. That said, I do ask the counselors at my daughter’s camp to please make sure that her classmates who eat peanut butter for lunch wash their hands before going out for recess.

Vacation from Food Allergies … Update on School Action Plan

Sunday, July 20th, 2008

I have not been able to bring myself to blog for the past two weeks.

Between the egg challenge debacle and the bungled camp/school forms, I’ve been at my wits ends with food allergies.  It’s been so all encompassing and upsetting that the last thing I’ve wanted to do is to blog about it.  Since I am unable to get a vacation from the constant vigilance required to manage a child’s food allergies on a daily basis, I took what I could — a vacation from blogging about food allergies.

But, at least for the time being, things seem more in control.  I’m back.

So, here’s how things resolved at school.

I need to enact a plan that balances the health needs of my daughter with ease of administration and minimal liability for the county.  Not an easy task.  The county policy is that if an epi-pen is authorized for an allergen and a child is sent to the health clinic for exposure to that allergen — an epi-pen will be given without waiting to see what symptoms manifest.  After much hand-wringing about the wisdom of this policy (and worrying how it would be enforced) — I talked to a county nurse who would allow my doctor to authorize benedryl and an epi-pen based on allergen and exposure type (ingestion vs. skin contact or inhalation).  While this solultion made me more comfortable, in the abstract, at least — a long talk with the nurse who oversees the clinic illustrated how confusing my plan might be to implement and the myriad of opportunities for confusion it could present in a very busy clinic.

So, I’m back to square one, really.  The only thing my daughter’s allergist and I have firmly decided is that we’re not authorizing an epi-pen for allergens that are unlikely to provoke a systemic allergic reaction.  Rather: authorize benedryl, callling me and 911 if there are signs of breathing distress or anaphylaxis.

The decision on peanuts and tree nuts is equally clear — better to err on the side of caution by authorizing an epi-pen than not.  The only remaining allergen that gives me pause is milk.  She had such immediate contact reactions when she was little — and benedryl or zyrtec has always resolved the problem within minutes.  It seems clear that benedryl is the right medicine to authorize.   But I would feel so much more comfortable if I could also authorize an epi-pen for milk as well, for severe reactions only.  I am afraid of her being given an epi-pen as a first response to the allergen to which she is most likely to be exposed to at school.  (She is in 1/2 day a.m. kindergarten next year, with no lunch, in a nut-free classroom.)

Part of me is mad at myself for getting all wrapped around the axel about this.  My daughter is extremely well-trained not to eat anything that has not been pre-approved by me.  She will not eat other’s snacks or partake in their birthday celebration treats.   She asks friends to wash their hands if she thinks they may have eaten something to which she’s allergic before she will play with them.  I know that the risk of allergen ingestion for her in next year’s environment is small.  But I know that accidents happen.  And, it’s my job, as a mother, to worry about all the what if’s.  And to slowly start to brace myself for the horror of her entering the school cafeteria in first grade.   It won’t get any easier next year, right?

First Day of Camp

Monday, July 7th, 2008

Today was my daughter’s first day of camp.  I am not sure whose jitters were worse — hers or mine.

Okay.  Mine were worse.  Far worse.  I did not feel completely comfortable that they understood the variety of reactions that could occur and how to handle them.  But then we showed up.  The teacher and camp director reassured me they took food allergies seriously, showed me the letter they were sending home to ask parents not to send peanuts to school, and promised to wash kids hands after snack.  And I felt better.  At least for a few hours.

Then, I got a call from the county public health nurse who supervises my daughter’s camp and school.   She told me that my daughter’s forms were filled out all wrong.  They also rejected my FAAN food allergy action plan because it’s based on symptoms (if you see X reaction, administer medication Y) rather than hard and fast rules.  But that’s exactly the problem with food allergies.  Some things are cut and dry, but there’s a whole lot of murky in between.   Especially with her milder allergies, some of which she can even ingest in small quantities and not get sick.  When you are managing multiple allergies with a wide variety of potential reactions, it is hard to have one iron-clad rule of what to do in the case of an allergic reaction.

If you are too cautious in your plan, your child will get epipens unnecessarily.  If you are not cautious enough, the school will not administer an epipen even in the throws of anaphylaxis.

What’s a parent to do?

Preparing for School

Wednesday, June 18th, 2008

School’s out for summer.  So, why am I spending so much time thinking about school?

Last week — I had my first meeting with the principal and kindergarten teacher of my daughter’s new school.  I was pleased by how productive this meeting was.  I left reassured that the school would make reasonable accommodations in order to provide a safe environment for her.

My husband recommended that I post the discussion outline that I prepared that set the stage for this school meeting, in the event that it might help someone else.

Meeting Objectives:

  1. Prevent food allergy attack by minimizing the risk of allergen exposure
  2. Recognize signs/symptoms of food allergy attack and be prepared to execute emergency medical plan
  3. Create safe environment in which food allergic child can have normal school experience

Wish List:

1. Minimizing risk:

A. Understanding the allergens:  What are they?  What range of reactions can occur based on contact or ingestion?
B. handwashing - entering school and after eating
C. nut-free classroom (since kindergarten students have snack in the classroom)
D. food-free art/science projects
E. principal/teacher letter to educate parents

2. Executing Emergency Plan

A. How widely distributed?
B. How knowledgeable about food allergies are teachers/staff that are responsible for FA child? Are they trained to administer epipens in an emergency?
C.  What about substitutes?
D.  Where are epipens stored?  If stored in nurses office (not classroom), how accessible is this office?  What happens if office closed?  Is emergency medicine brought on playground or on field trips?  Who is in charge in these environments?

3. Creating safe/normal environment

A. Birthday celebrations and class parties - predictable schedule with advance notice so parent can provide safe snack for FA child
B. Desire to keep child safe without putting any additional limitations or restrictions (other than those recommended by her allergist) that make FA child feel excluded from group activities
C. What are the bus procedures/protocols?  Can child self-carry epipen?  Will bus driver carry epipen?  If answer to both is “no” - how can FA child be kept safe on bus?

I hope this is helpful.  If I’ve forgotten something — or if you’ve have had positive/negative experiences in meeting with school officials that you think would be helpful to share — please  leave a comment.